How “Gifted” is Your Child Really?

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A young pupil named Ken Newman found himself being frequently bullied after skipping a grade when he wasn’t ready. Matthiessen phrased it, “he was picked on because he was smaller and younger looking than his classmates” (2).  He was forced into an environment he did not belong and everyone noticed. Not only does this damage his learning, but also his self-esteem and social skills. This is just one example of students becoming unprepared for their schooling. Some students, however, like Tara Lynne Groth, find skipping a level in school to be successful and beneficial. She realized she did better in a higher level thinking environment and now even owns her own company, but this happens very rarely and many kids have other opportunities to excel, whether that’s through something like gifted and honors programs or tutoring, etc. For these reasons and many more, skipping grades is not for the better and in some cases, may be damaging. Kids skipping grades in school leaves them unprepared and ill fit for future schooling and life.

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Foremost, pushing kids ahead in school leaves them underdeveloped socially and is not as beneficial as many perceive. Ken Newman’s experience illustrates this perfectly. Ken skipped a grade ahead in elementary school and found himself behind and bullied when he got to high school. The phrase Matthiessen used was, “he was picked on because he was smaller and younger looking than his classmates” . He recalls even being thrown in a trashcan. He continued his education and went to Cornell at 15. Not only did he become extremely homesick, but he also cried himself to sleep “every night”, he says. It made his transition that much tougher compared to the other students. Being physically, mentally, and socially prepared to accelerate your education is just as important as your academic ability. Going into college not even shaving and with braces, proved to be a regretful decision for Ken Newman, and one he greatly wishes he could take back.

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In addition, students may not need as much acceleration or challenges as one thinks at first glance. Many parents, teachers, schools, etc. see a child excelling in an area of their academics and want to immediately push them ahead. However, where they fail to think ahead is the effects and ramifications skipping a grade has on the student. In many cases, students are gifted in one or a few areas, but not enough to skip an entire year. So when they do, that child tends to fall behind and need extra help in certain areas, whereas that wouldn’t be needed if they were at the level they were supposed to be. A second grader found himself in this situation after his parents urged him into third grade early. Patty Diegan, a national board certified teacher from Illinois remembers, “Holes developed in his learning and ended up needing tutors by 5th grade”. Gifted kids in one area are rare, let alone gifted kids prepared enough to skip an entire grade. That type of huge decision should not be taken lightly and even if a child seems ready, they might not be.

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Moreover, skipping a grade is not only a major decision in that child’s education, but it intensifies the pressure put on them to perform. Patty Diegan said she “fears a push to make (skipping grades) more available will only intensify the pressure put on young children to always outshine their peers”. Being “average” has never been the goal. For many parents, they want their child to be the best and brightest. Plus the added pressure that kids put on themselves to succeed, get good grades, etc. Then to intensify this by skipping an entire grade, especially early on where they learn essential skills, it can be tough. When kids don’t fit in and are trying to adjust to a new environment, they are going to put all their effort into their education, focusing much more time, effort, and pressure on that one area. Once the work, stress, and pressure, catches up to these kids, they will find themselves falling behind, yet again, and needing extra support. Although in some cases, kids are afraid to ask for help because of the pressure to succeed and the cloud of stress that follows.

Some may argue that it is better for a student to be at their appropriate level of thinking and be challenged sufficiently. However, you have to also take into account the other aspects, like social and mental factors, because they are just as important to a child’s success as their academics. If a child is unprepared in any one of these factors it can set them up for failure in the future. Even a one year difference to a child can have a major impact because, especially the younger you are, the differences between grades are heightened. There are also many other opportunities for a child to be challenged in their academics, while still being in their original grade level. Gifted and honors programs add to a student’s ability and success and builds on their skills from learning in their correct grade level.

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Also, those saying that skipping a grade improves student’s grades are not correct. From the examples, I stated previously, it is clear in many cases that students that skip grades tend to fall behind and see less improvement than is beneficial. Students still find ways to excel and perform in their normal classroom setting.

When a child skips a grade they could be simultaneously skipping essential parts of their learning and set them behind their peers, instead of benefiting them. Not only does it put holes in their academic ability, but also their social and mental aspects. In most cases, skipping a grade typically catches up to the child, sets them behind, and prevents them from really learning to the best of their ability.

 

Romeo + Juliet blog post #2

First Impressions through act 3

As the plot continues, it continues to develop and become more exciting. Deaths and Marriages seem to be happening left and right, within a very short period of time also. It’s interesting to see the dynamic of secret marriage between Romeo and Juliet play out, in terms of other people’s influence on their love life and relationships also. For example, the nurse and Juliet’s mom herself keeps suggesting a marriage to Paris and Juliet simply agrees and moves on, knowing very well she only wishes to be with Romeo.

 

What confused me what the deaths of Tybalt and Mercutio. They happened so quickly and frantically, that it became challenging to follow along. Once Romeo and were married also, it made their Tybalt’s death more interesting and meaningful because he had a relationship to Romeo and reason to love him, without even knowing it. He would also never get the chance to understand Romeo’s actions and reasoning.

 

Love at first sight is still playing a huge role in the plot so far. The question of “can love at first sight last” continues through these acts as well. So far, I think Romeo and Juliet’s love is lasting because they obviously have given up a lot for each other, including family members. Romeo was even banished and they still swore they would be together. Then again, it has only been a matter of days in their relationship, so to say that is “lasting” is a bit of a stretch, but they do seem to be very passionate and dedicated to one another, especially for just meeting.

I believe it’s Romeo’s fault for how things are playing out so far in terms of deaths and other characters relationships. He was the one initiating Romeo and Juliet’s relationship in the first place, then wanted to be married, stirring up many other issues altogether. Juliet was the one wanting to take their relationship slower at first, yet Romeo is the reason for the way the plot is developing.

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To continue character analysis on Romeo, he still appears as a selfless, passionate, desperate for love type of person. He swears to give up almost anything for Juliet, even after just meeting. This type of desperate dreamy love Romeo exhibits also tends to get him in a lot of trouble. Being so in love with Juliet that he secretly married her for example, didn’t make things easier for him. Because he is so driven by his passion and love, he tends to act impulsively and somewhat irresponsibly in many instances.

Lines like “For stony limits cannot hold love out” (2.2.) and “My bounty is as boundless as the sea, My love as deep; the more I give to thee, The more I have, for both are infinite.”(2.2.) show how devoted Romeo was to his love and Juliet. He needs the feeling of love to feel wanted and complete. His love is a major part of his character.

Tybalt and Mercutio

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The two somewhat likeable characters were both killed off quite quickly, with little time for regrets. I believe both were somewhat at fault for their outcomes for various reasons. Obviously Mercutio initiated a conflict between the two, but Tybalt also went into it looking for a fight as well. Because everything else in the plot is moving quickly, it only makes sense that Shakespeare kill off more characters quickly and keep the quick flow moving throughout the plot.

Zeffirelli vs. Luhrman

When it comes to the different movie styles and the fight scene between Tybalt and Mercutio, the two couldn’t be more different. I feel the traditional Zeffirelli scene best captured the misfortune of these characters because the Luhrman version was more confusing and difficult to follow. Zeffirelli, being more traditional, was a simple, closer to script type of scene, allowing for a better expression of what is going on in the scene.

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However the Luhrman version did have interesting camera work. More action like shots created a more tense, emotional scene. Their character development was also different. Zeffirelli, again more traditional, was more direct in character development, whereas Luhrman was more developed as the plot continued. I find the Zeffirelli version the most compelling because it went along well with the traditional script and plot, but was very well depicted as well.

for more character and play analysis go to dramatica.com or british library.

R&J blog post 1

First Impressions

Romeo and Juliet, a classic right? Almost anyone you talk to could tell you the ending, so going into reading it, you should be able to understand it, obviously. However, the way the play is written, the language, dialogue, grammar, all make for a more challenging read than expected. Shakespeare’s elizabethan tone adds another element and layer or knowledge needed by the reader to fully comprehend the plot. It also adds a dramatic element and heightens the theatrical aspect of the story itself. Without the specific type of language used, it would simply be a teenage love story we could all easily predict.

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Understanding the language aside, the plot itself was different than I previously had expected. There was more of a backstory and preface to it than depicted in most media, where they cut right to the Romeo and Juliet love itself. However there are many more characters and elements that precede either of the main characters. This pleased me because it added more to the story than just two teenagers in love.

“Love at First Sight”

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The concept of love at first sight has been highly debated, and for good reason. There is a lot of questions surrounding it, its causes and effects, etc. For example, is it worth pursuing? In Romeo and Juliet’s case so far it was. They felt such a strong connection/attraction they felt they had to be together. Their instant captivation towards one another proved strong enough for both to pursue each other the rest of the night, drifting closer and closer and it isn’t until Juliet gets whisked away and Romeo realizes she’s a Capulet that he has some second thoughts. Until we read further to understand the effects of their immediate actions, we only can assume and hope they made the right decision pursue their initial chemistry. Only time will tell.

A major character in the story. Seeing as his name in the title, he must be important. He also has many aspects of his character developed already. Act 2, scene 2, lines 133-136, “My bounty is as boundless as the sea/My love as deep; the more I give to thee/The more I have, for both are infinite.” He shows he is passionate about love, the people and things he loves for that matter. He will give his all to the woman of his choice. However, we also know he “loved” Rosaline. This did not last long, however because as soon as he saw Juliet he swore she was the one for him. So is he really faithful? Or does he give his love out easily to the woman he “loves”. Maybe he actually does love Juliet wholeheartedly and Rosaline was something he thought was true love.

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Romeo is also a very conflicted character because of what has happened so far in the plot. He thought he was in love until he saw another stunning woman who caught his attention and made him truly believe he was in love. Then, after finding out she is a member of the family his family has been feuding with for longer than he can know, he is devastated. This feud is seeming to spread farther than he probably anticipated and debilitating his love life. So many emotions are going through his mind and overwhelming his experiences because everything is happening so quickly, most likely causing impulsive decisions and a bombardment of feelings clouding his thoughts.

Zeffirelli vs Luhrman Movie Scenes

Both Masquerade scenes, Zeffirelli and Luhrman, had various similarities and glaring differences to each other and to the play itself. Similarly, both scenes had a similar setting, the Masquerade ball where Romeo is searching for his Rosaline, but ends up finding Juliet. They continue to follow a similar, basic plot as the scene advances. Secondly, both scenes depict Romeo being absolutely starstruck with love by Juliet. They both do a very good job of expressing the “love at first sight” feeling and showing the emotion involved in the scene.

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On the other hand, the major differences can’t go unnoticed. For example, the dialogue in the Zeffirelli scene was almost directly from the play itself, while Luhrman had some slight variations in the lines and delivery of many quotes. Also, the camera use in the Zeffirelli version was much more simple, standard, and straight forward, focusing your attention directly where they want it. Whereas the Luhrman scene had many more angles, moving shots, and almost “action” shots, showing more emotions and feeling of the characters in their situation and allowing the audience to get a better understanding of the fast paced, unexpectedness, spontaneousness of the scene, and feel it too.

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Based off this evidence and factors, I feel as though the Luhrman see did a better job expressing the scene overall. Even though many lines were variations of the original, the camera work and visuals allow a better feeling to the audience as though they can experience the emotion in the scene along with the characters, better understand their circumstances, and have a better grasp on the plot as well. 

Love Connection

“The children of an idle brain”, or as most of us know them, dreams. To me, dreams are expressions of what is happening in the brain, what your thinking about, what’s on your mind. Which makes sense, like a song stuck on your tongue, something planted in your mind all day is bound to show up again and again. 

 

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Speaking for myself, I’ve had more dreams about things that have already happened than things coming. Almost like déjà vu I wake up confused, feeling as though I lived through the same event twice. In some instances, however, the opposite occurred and I dreamt about something before it happened. This can be even stranger in most cases because it’s almost like you know what’s going to happen next, like something out of a movie. 

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Dreams can serve as a great learning opportunity, especially if we know what’s going to happen like we lived it once already. Obviously telling the future would come in handy in most situations, but even the dreams that come after an event can tell us a lot.

For example, dreaming about the past you can see a different perspective than your own an better understand the situation and circumstances. Almost like giving extra insight into what happened and why.

I can recall a situation where a friend and I got in a fight. I couldn’t see her perspective on the situation and she wasn’t effectively communicating it to me until I had a dream about what happened before the fight and was put in her shoes. It wasn’t exactly what happened, but it effectively showed me the possibilities of what could’ve happened and how to make the situation better.

I also had a dream that my aunt was pregnant with her second child, which also turned out to be true and he is now 3 years old!

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Dreams give an insight in to the brain and feelings and experiences we didn’t even know we had. They serve as an opportunity to learn more about ourselves and better understand things that have and will happen. 

They are tools we can use to better ourselves and help those around us.

about me

My name is Ellen. I am a passionate learner, writer, and observer. My curiosity and sense of learning has always led to great things, especially in school. Not only am I a successful honors student at Perkiomen Valley High School, but I am involved in many different activities like field hockey, softball, and I plan on joining various clubs this year. I am interested in a wide range of topics but philosophy, english, art and social sciences have always peaked my interest. Future plans at the moment are flexible; undecided for the most part.